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FAQ’s about the Apostles of the Interior Life
Is your community an Italian community and if so do the women in formation have to learn Italian?
Being a missionary community, we are required to be open to adjust to new cultures and environments. Our community is an Italian foundation, thus the Italian culture is part of who we are. It is a privilege for us to say that after being founded in 1990, the AVI were first approved canonically by the diocese of Rome, which is the heart of the universal Catholic Church .
It is our desire that a large part of the formation process to become an AVI takes place in Rome, which is where both the Mother House and the House of Formation are located. For non-native Italian women who feel a desire to discern our charism, it is a requirement to study Italian to prepare to live in Rome. The two official languages of the community are Italian and English.
How often are you able to visit your family?
The family we come from is very important to us. We are grateful to our parents for the gift of life and we honor and respect them, even if our vocation takes us away from a frequent interaction with them. We keep in touch with our parents and siblings and their families on a regular basis through phone calls, zoom, emails, and visits (also during the time of formation). We are attentive to the needs of each specific family and we discern with the superior how to make ourselves present to our family when special circumstances arise. Every year each of us AVI is granted a period of three weeks to spend with our family.
Can you use phones and personal email account?
Yes, we can. However during formation we concentrate on learning how to use technology in a balanced way and for the purpose it is intended: a means to an end and not a distraction or an amusement toy. This helps to maintain a prayerful and recollected attitude during the day.
What is the role of liturgy in your community?
The Liturgy is very much part of our communal life. Our day is marked by the Liturgy of the Hours which is comprised of Morning, Daytime, Evening and Night Prayer and Office of Readings. To pray all the Hours of the Liturgy expresses our desire to be in communion with the Church that prays without ceasing. We also go to daily Mass as a community.
What does it mean that you have a priestly spirituality?
Priestly spirituality means that in our charism we look to Christ the High Priest as a model and inspiration of who we are and what we do. Our Rule of Life says:
“The figure of Christ the Priest is at the center of the spirituality of the Apostles of the Interior Life. Jesus Christ, manifestation of the Father and giver of the Spirit, is loved in a particular way by the Apostle of the Interior Life. The more she loves Christ, the more intensely she will love the apostolic activity of Christ, that is, his salvific mission”. (RoL 3)
We try to imitate Christ in His three-fold office of Priest, Prophet and King, taking full advantage of the Common Priesthood of the Faithful bestowed on each of us at Baptism (defined in the Catechism of the Catholic Church #1546-7). Having a priestly spirituality does not refer to having any desire or claim to become ordained ministers. Our Rule of life clearly states:
“The Apostle of the Interior Life, aware and well informed of the Tradition of the Catholic Church concerning the ministerial Priesthood and of all that pertains to the dogmatic dimension of the Sacrament of Orders, is respectful of all the functions reserved to the Priest. She nourishes in her mind no ambition whatsoever in this regard and furthermore works actively in defending all areas of Catholic doctrine”. (RoL 6)
The promises of poverty, chastity and obedience taken by each AVI enhance the communal priesthood of the baptized. Our consecration unifies us with Him so that all our life is spent to grow in union with Christ and serve through the ministry He cared for the most: the formation of souls.
Is having student loans an impediment to join?
If you find yourself in this situation, you will be asked to work with the vocation director to find the best solution for your case. Having loans doesn’t automatically disqualify you to consider our community; however, the community cannot take on your loans as you only begin to explore the charism or enter formation.
Why do you not wear a habit?
Since we are a Community more similar in nature to a Society of Apostolic Life than to an Institute of Religious Life, the habit is not a requirement for our identity. During the founding of our community only thirty years ago, the discernment process led us to this choice: to wear modest and simple clothes. The local authority of the Church of Rome blessed and supported the decision, giving canonical recognition to our Rule of Life. Even though as consecrated women “we are not of the World,” we nonetheless live in it. We witness Christ through our life, without any external visible sign, except for the joy of our consecration.
Is there an age limit to join your community?
Yes, the age limit is 30 years old. And we ask that all women have at least a high school diploma in order to study philosophy and theology at a University level.
What does AVI stand for?
AVI are initials for our name in Italian: Apostole della Vita Interiore. Since our community was founded in Italy we keep those initials also in the United States even though it might be confusing!
How do you maintain yourselves financially?
We live on Divine Providence which manifests itself in so many ways. One of the most prominent ways is through the generosity of benefactors. The support we receive also from the Catholic campus center where we serve also provides a valuable assistance.
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Book Recommendations

"And you are Christ's"
This book is a gem especially for those discerning if they have the charism of virginity. This book can help family members and friends understand how their daughter/sister/friend’s heart is made. Many of the AVI Sisters found this book to be truly a blessing to read during their discernment.

Discerning Religious Life
In spiritual direction the AVI Sisters have often shared this book because it has a great chapter on looking at the fears many have in embracing a call to consecrated life. Mother Clare’s book also lends itself to use for a small group discussions.

Samuel Group
This book was written by the AVI Sisters for their discernment program that they lead, Samuel Group. This book is used by program directors but it can also be a wonderful aid for a 6-month discernment period, which is the period of time recommended by Mother Clare in her book Discerning Religious Life.
Pope Francis' Cathechisis on Discernment
This is a wonderful free resource from Pope Francis. It is an aid to help the Church in having a disposition of discernment. He said, “Discernment is demanding but indispensable for living. It requires that I know myself, that I know what is good for me here and now. Above all, it requires a filial relationship with God. God is Father and He does not leave us alone.”













